Genesis 25:12–18 (ESV) —
12 These are the generations of Ishmael, Abraham’s son, whom Hagar the Egyptian, Sarah’s servant, bore to Abraham. 13 These are the names of the sons of Ishmael, named in the order of their birth: Nebaioth, the firstborn of Ishmael; and Kedar, Adbeel, Mibsam, 14 Mishma, Dumah, Massa, 15 Hadad, Tema, Jetur, Naphish, and Kedemah. 16 These are the sons of Ishmael and these are their names, by their villages and by their encampments, twelve princes according to their tribes. 17 (These are the years of the life of Ishmael: 137 years. He breathed his last and died, and was gathered to his people.) 18 They settled from Havilah to Shur, which is opposite Egypt in the direction of Assyria. He settled over against all his kinsmen.
NOTE: The region east of Egypt on the coast of the Red Sea is not the easiest place to live. Other versions interpret the word "opposite" as "being in opposition to." Certainly the prophecy said that he would be against all those around him. It is amazing that despite having the same heir, the groups could be so entirely opposed to each other. But they are not alone. All of Europe has fought against one another for years and for the most part they are related through Japheth and others. Even within families, disputes arise that separate children from one another for years. It is not good, but it is a reality.
How does that apply to us? Many of us, including myself, have estranged siblings. It is one thing to just not communicate, but it is another thing when you don't even care to communicate. I am the oldest of seven and I have one brother like that. That particular brother is estranged from everyone in the family. He is the very middle of the middle, #4 of 7. I don't know all the reasons for his separation. I know he has some anger toward me because my mother set me on a pedestal for everyone else to follow. She was wrong to do that. I know my faith has also caused a separation. What is our responsibility? I think we do have a responsibility to reach out and try to reconcile. It is never good to live in separation from another, no matter who started it.
PONDER:
- What relationships in my life are estranged?
- What have I done and what can I still do to heal?
PRAYER: Father, I pray that as I reach out to an estranged sibling, that you would provide healing and restoration. Help me to be humble and to have no expectations. I pray for you to work and lead in this.