John 4:11–20 (ESV) —
11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock.” 13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”
16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” 17 The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.” 19 The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.”
NOTE: I have been in a number of these faith conversations. This is fairly typical. The women's first response seems cynical -- Jesus is talking about living water and she points out that he nothing to draw living water. I'm pretty sure she knew he was not talking about the well. Next, Jesus is even clearer about his living water becoming eternal life. But, she sees this living water as an issue of comfort and not having to draw water again. Next, Jesus tells her to call her husband, but her response is cryptic, "I have no husband." Jesus graciously calls her truthful, and then says you have had 5 husbands and the guy you are living with now is not your husband. Now her sin has been exposed, and I've seen this over and over again when the truth gets too close, she tries to change the subject. She will try that again, before taking action.
Sometimes I will respond to the change of subject with a "you are not really interested in the answer to your question. People say they are interested but then, as the question is being answered, keep adding a new question, hoping to stump the Christian. All the answers are out there, and if you were really interested in a true answer, you could just ask AI, 'what is the Christian apologist's answer to blah-blah-blah question." Never ask the AI the question directly, it will only give you the social media majority opinion, which is almost always the non-Christian answer. Ask for the Christian apologist's answer if you are truly interested in the Christian response. Otherwise, you will only get what confirms your own biases.
I built AI models. I led the enterprise data science office for a fortune 100 company. I can tell you clearly, they do not think. They are only matrix algebra formulations of a lot of data, mostly social media.
PONDER:
- Am I really interested in answers or just in quieting the answers I don't want to hear?
- Am I prepared to give an answer to anyone who calls me to account for the hope that I have in me?
PRAYER: Father, help me to be gracious as Jesus was with the Samaritan women. I too can be critical of those who ask faith questions, but maybe, someday those answers might make a difference in their lives.