1 Timothy 5:1–2 (ESV) — 1 Do not rebuke an older man but encourage him as you
would a father, younger men as brothers, 2 older women as
mothers, younger women as sisters, in all purity.
NOTE: Do not rebuke
an older man, why? It certainly hurts when a younger brother rebukes you. I
think there is a sense that you need to have been a better example. There is
some struggle with embarrassment. It is a struggle at every level. Whereas,
remembering the age relationship, and speaking truth gently feels a lot better.
I do think the approach works at any age, but I can see how it could be more
hurtful when the rebuke comes from a younger person.
PRAYER: Father, help
me to esteem the aged. Help me to share rebukes in a way that comes along side
and does not appear that I am putting myself over the person. Help me to be
sensitive to the person and to your Holy Spirit's leading.
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