QT 7/30/2024 Prov 19:6, What is the real motivation for my generosity?

Proverbs 19:6 (ESV) —

6 Many seek the favor of a generous man,

and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts.

 

NOTE: Sometimes a proverb is just a truism, that is something that generally is true without any moral clarification. There have been quite a few of those nestled in this book. In particular, bribes are applauded for their impact. Some examples include:

 

Proverbs 17:8 (ESV) —

8 A bribe is like a magic stone in the eyes of the one who gives it;

wherever he turns he prospers.

Proverbs 21:14 (ESV) —

14 A gift in secret averts anger,

and a concealed bribe, strong wrath.

 

The statements represents truisms, not necessarily good things. But there is a negative (or moral) side to bribes that are also a truism.

 

Proverbs 15:27 (ESV) —

27 Whoever is greedy for unjust gain troubles his own household,

but he who hates bribes will live.

Proverbs 17:23 (ESV) —

23 The wicked accepts a bribe in secret

to pervert the ways of justice.

Proverbs 29:4 (ESV) —

4 By justice a king builds up the land,

but he who exacts gifts tears it down.

 

So as we read proverbs, we must look for the moral truisms, not just the truisms. And, I should have said this sooner, these "truisms" are "generally true statements." If you do such and such, then generally, such and such will happen. These are not biblical promises.

 

The verse in Prov 19:6 applauds the idea of generosity and the giving of gifts. But the moral dilemma in the verse is the motivation. This verse is very similar to the verses on bribes. Yes, generosity does make for a lot of friends, but why are you doing it? It is a good thing to be generous. But it can also be a prideful and deceitful thing as well. Who do your gifts go to? Are they only to those in power or important people?

 

PONDER:

1. Who do I give gifts, only family and friends?
2. Do I give gifts to those who have no influence in society?
3. Do I give gifts to the poor?
4. Ask God to show you your motivation.

 

PRAYER: Father, why do I give gifts. Is it to be seen or for my reputation. Do I give anonymously or must always be known. Search me O God and know my heart. Show me if there is any wicked way in me (Ps 139:23-24 paraphrased).